
This week marks the sad anniversary of my co-worker, Leah Hartley, being found dead in an irrigation ditch at 6th and Grant, near her apartment. I wrote this post about her death, then found myself without work a few months later.
Nothing being proposed by United Way and their suicide prevention program, “Project Tomorrow”, would have helped Leah Hartley’s downward spiral into addiction because that’s not what the “tools” being offered to service industry workers by United Way are designed to address.
When you watch this clip you will hear the amazing insight that bartenders and hair stylists hear things from their customers and, if they hear WORRISOME things from their customers, then United Way wants them to have the “tools” to respond appropriately.
If United Way wants to invest their non-profit resources into transforming bartenders and hair stylists into psychologists doing unpaid mental health work for their fucked up customers, then here’s a suggestion: BETTER COCAINE!
My insights come from actually working in the service industry over the years, like Food For Thought by campus, where the hungover breakfast cook would sometimes vomit in the trash can in the middle of cooking an omelet, or those three hellish weeks at the Iron Horse, where the main chef liked to tell NOT funny jokes about dead kids in his trunk.
Expecting sex offenders and drug addicts to care about their customers as they get paid shit wages in a totally unaffordable town is one of the stupidest ideas I’ve heard in awhile, but, considering Missoula is a collectively retarded liberal college town incapable of dealing with reality, I’m not surprised.
The reality that I see in Missoula is that United Way of Missoula County uses Montana’s high suicide rate to specifically target guns, which is the preferred choice of ending it for men. That’s why United Way amplifies people like Ali at their blog for handing out gun locks, like THAT is going to stop someone who had made up their mind to die. From the link:
In a sparsely populated state where many people own firearms, the small metal contraptions, which fit around a trigger and cost less than $10 on Amazon, are one way Montanans are trying to reduce the high rate of people who kill themselves.
For the past year, Ali, 46, has been giving gun locks away to anyone who wants one, her piece of trying to solve the puzzle of suicide in Montana. “It’s in the culture,” she said one afternoon in Helena. “If you don’t know someone, you know of someone who has died.”
Murder rates and mass shootings make national headlines, defining the discussion over pervasive gun violence. But most gun deaths in America are self-inflicted. There were about 27,000 gun suicides in 2022. That was a record, and far higher than the 19,500 gun homicides documented that year.
There have been more gun suicides than gun homicides in the United States every year for the past 25 years. Yet the harm inflicted on communities by suicides rarely registers in the national debate over guns.
This article featuring a well-intentioned widow handing out gun locks deliberately focuses on guns and “red flag laws” because, we are told, it was the arrival of guns in her own home that enabled her husband to kill himself.
Suicidal impulses can last only briefly, but easy access to a gun makes the urges more difficult to survive. In Montana, 67 percent of suicides in 2022 involved a gun, according to the Times analysis. Nationally, guns were used in about 55 percent of such deaths.
But in a place where guns are embedded in the rugged, frontier ethos, there is little political will to prevent people who are at risk of harming themselves from owning a gun. A proposal to create a “red flag” law, which would prohibit a person determined to be a danger to himself or others from possessing a firearm, died in a committee of the State Legislature last year.
Several years ago, Ali’s husband’s family passed down some firearms that were considered heirlooms, and she agreed they could be stored at her house.
At the time, suicide did not cross her mind.
If I was a bartender serving Ali’s husband drinks before he presumably ate a bullet, I wonder what kind of “red flags” I would have heard? Would I have heard sad confessions, like how unfulfilling being a “mortgage loan officer” was, or the pressure he felt from his wife to maintain their social status by killing whatever dream he shoved down into a dark hole in order to make money for his young family?
John Mullen was working as a handyman at what is now the Whitefish Mountain Resort when they met.
They married in Glacier. A pair of bald eagles circled overhead as they exchanged their vows. “It’s the greatest place on earth,” she said of Glacier.
After their first child, a daughter, was born in 2006, they moved to the Helena area to be closer to John’s parents.
The vice president of a community bank took a liking to John and hired him as mortgage loan officer. He was a natural, tapping his connections across greater Helena where he had lived since he was a boy.
My gut reaction to this widower’s perspective about her dead husband is that NO ONE is a “natural” at enslaving humans into complicated debt instruments called “mortgages”, but being a mortgage loan officer is definitely a financial step up from being just a “handyman” at Glacier, so that’s what a socially affable guy with a wife and kids did until he couldn’t do it anymore.
Three years ago I wrote critically about a bill, introduced by a Bozeman Democrat named Ed, that would have empowered vindictive female partners and dysfunctional families to use the courts for gun removal.
Here’s the quote from that post explaining what the “red flag” bill would do:
House Bill 202, sponsored by Rep. Ed Stafman, D-Bozeman, is a “red flag” bill — a policy that allows for a court to order that an individual surrender their firearms if a family member, partner or law enforcement agency can make the case that the person presents a danger to themselves or others.
The bill would establish “extreme risk orders of protection” allowing a district court to prohibit a person from purchasing or possessing a firearm during the duration of the order. The language, Stafman said, is modeled after the federal Bipartisan Safer Communities Act, a gun safety and mental health services law Congress passed in 2022. The BSCA, among other provisions, includes grants to help states implement extreme risk protection order programs as long as strict due process rights are followed.
Having been on both sides of these court processes, first as a non-profit service provider working with EXTREMELY mentally ill people who the County Attorney’s Office would routinely deny intervention for, then as a supposedly dangerous mentally ill person myself, I can tell you more laws and less rights won’t make anyone safer.
Now, thanks to the Lindsey Clancy case, I have a better appreciation for why rational arguments are a waste of time when dealing with well-meaning Ali’s handing out gun-locks for United Way and the agenda-driven political operators taking advantage of those well-meaning Ali’s.
But go ahead and support Project Weaponized Sorrow if you want to, it’s still a free country with strong Constitutional protections, right?

I’ll conclude today’s post with a comment I made to the Housing, Redevelopment and Community Programs Committee, which met on Wednesday to rubber-stamp $100,000 dollars for the Missoula Economic Partnership. Here’s the referral with a time-line mistake I just caught, since I’m pretty sure City Council isn’t meeting on Labor Day:

Isn’t it funny how the people who want MORE laws to intervene in people’s lives can’t even seem to follow their own open meeting laws, or provide accurate information to the public?
Since double-standards and a two-tiered legal system appear to be the new normal in this post-law nation of psychotic victims, I’m going to keep using my 3 minutes to match the vibe, like advocating for more accurate acronyms.
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